Eh, you know how Singaporeans like to jalan jalan at night? But did you know some parks become something else after dark? One Redditor recently shared a *ahem* interesting experience at Punggol Park late at night, sparking a whole discussion about parks as meetup spots. Let’s kaypoh a bit, shall we?
SG Parks After Dark
- Parks offer privacy and accessibility.
“Gay guys who enjoy outdoor action are just a small subset of the gay demographic and they’d frequent any park that offers some privacy in the dark of night.”
- Punggol Park isn’t the only spot; other parks like Hong Lim Park have a history.
“Well, not just Punggol Park. But I’ve heard stories from a friend who stayed near Punggol Park being followed when he was running and he felt off about it (but nothing happened to him). Hong Lim Park actually started out as one of the more ‘famous’ parks back in the 1960s-70s (or so I’ve read).”
- Parks provide a space for social connection, especially at night.
Unexpected Encounters Happen
- Unwanted advances and misunderstandings can occur.
“I went out to a park nearby once when I was sad and sat down on a bench. A guy came and pat me on the shoulder then asked if he could sit next to me. I thought he just wanted to talk about some stuff. Then he put his hand on my thigh and I freaked the fuck out and ran away.”
- Not everyone is aware of these unspoken ‘uses’ of public spaces.
“I lived in Punggol for 8 years (next to Punggol Point MRT). Used to ride my bike at night but didn’t know about this. Worst thing that happened to me is I was on Coney Island when it got dark and almost ran into that cow. Scared the hell out of me.”
- Navigating social interactions requires awareness and caution.
Staying Safe, Staying Aware
- Communicate intentions clearly to avoid misunderstandings.
“Next time regardless of gender just ask directly like that person in the meme. It’s straightforward and saves time for both parties.”
- Be aware of your surroundings and trust your instincts. If something feels off, remove yourself from the situation.
- Consider bringing a friend or sticking to well-lit areas.
“Macritchie has live viewing showering, don’t ask me how I know”
- Remember, public spaces are for everyone, but being mindful and respectful is key.
So, next time you’re taking a late-night stroll in a Singapore park, just be aware of your surroundings and maybe don’t be too surprised by what you see! Stay safe, Singapore!
