Remember those all-nighters grinding levels or battling friends online? As Singaporeans, we’re all too familiar with the relentless march of ‘adulting’ – career demands, HDB loans, and family responsibilities. But does growing up mean hanging up your controller for good? Reddit’s gaming community has some surprising answers that challenge the notion that gaming is just for the young.
Gaming Never Gets Old
It turns out, the gaming spirit in Singapore runs deep, transcending age and marital status. Many local gamers in their 20s, 30s, 40s, and even 50s are still actively playing. This isn’t just about nostalgia; it’s about finding joy and a crucial outlet in busy lives. The perception of gaming as a ‘waste of time’ is increasingly being challenged, with many viewing it as a legitimate hobby, akin to painting or playing an instrument.
“My dad still games, and he’s in his 50s. Not as much as his younger years, but he still plays. He’s arguably more of a gamer than I am lmao.”
In fact, the trend shows spouses often game together or are supportive of their partner’s hobby. This shared interest can even strengthen bonds, proving that gaming can be a communal activity rather than an isolating one. It’s a clear signal that gaming is evolving from a niche pastime to a widely accepted form of entertainment and de-stressing.
“30s. Married. I play games because I enjoy them. The wifey games too, not as much as I do, but she’s committed enough to take annual leave to play Elden Ring: Shadow of the Erdtree on launch day.”
The Adulting Grind
While the passion for gaming remains, the biggest hurdle for Singaporean adults is undoubtedly time. The daily grind of work, family commitments, and household chores leaves little room for extensive gaming sessions. Many feel a constant tug-of-war between personal leisure and responsibilities, leading to guilt over spending precious hours on games.
“I am late 20 here , still playing my PS5 time to time but my age telling me it’s a waste of time doing this alry, it’s like life responsibilities calling to me lol”
This internal conflict is amplified by societal expectations. The viral meme contrasting previous generations’ priorities (HDB, car, kids) with current ones (blind box, toys, games) perfectly encapsulates this struggle. There’s an unspoken pressure to conform to traditional ‘adult’ pursuits, making it hard for gamers to justify their hobby amidst the demands of Singaporean life.
“Parents in late 20s in 1980/90s: Buy HDB, have children, have car. Us in 30s : Buy blind box, buy toys, play games, feed pets.”
Level Up Your Life
So, how do you keep gaming without neglecting your responsibilities? The key lies in moderation and smart time management. Many Singaporean gamers find success by integrating short, focused gaming sessions into their routine, even if it’s just an hour or two on off-days or late at night. Portable consoles like the Steamdeck or Nintendo Switch are game-changers, allowing for quick play sessions anywhere, anytime.
“Get a Steamdeck. Or a Switch 2 now that it’s out. Game in bed once you are done with family duties.”
Crucially, gaming is increasingly seen as a vital de-stressor. After a long day of work or family duties, a quick gaming session can provide a much-needed mental break. It’s about recognizing gaming as a form of self-care and a legitimate hobby that contributes to well-being, rather than a frivolous waste of time. Don’t let society tell you to stop; play in moderation and keep that youthful spirit alive!
“the moment you stop playing games is the time you get old…so don’t stop playing 🙂 (of course in moderation)”
