Eh, Singaporeans, ever kenna this? You see someone earning big bucks, but still act like they’re pinching every single cent? Maybe they grew up not having much. Let’s talk about the subtle signs of someone who came from a less privileged background, even if they’re rolling in dough now.
Signs of Humble Beginnings
- Price Comparison Obsession
I have this friend who, based on his job title and company, likely earns well over 200k per year (we are only in our 20s). However, he would spend time and meticulously compare prices of everything he buys and gets the cheapest option, even if it is just to save 50c.
Even with a fat paycheck, the habit of hunting for the best deals sticks. Maybe it’s ingrained in them. It’s not about being cheap; it’s about value for money. They remember the days when every dollar counted. According to recent surveys, 45% of Singaporeans actively compare prices before making purchases, regardless of their income level. This habit might be even stronger for those who grew up with less.
- Generosity with Friends
A subtle sign, contrary to OP’s friend, could be they’re less stingy and more open to sharing/treating their friends. The ones whom I know grew up in a less privileged familiers are the most generous in my opinion…
Paradoxical, right? But some Singaporeans who experienced hardship are often the most generous. They understand what it’s like to struggle, so they’re quick to share their blessings. It’s a way of paying it forward, a form of unspoken solidarity.
Challenges They Still Face
- Guilt About Spending
Even when they can afford it, there’s a nagging feeling of guilt when spending on themselves. Maybe they feel they should be saving that money instead, or sending it back home. It’s hard to shake off the mindset of scarcity, even when resources are abundant. The median household income in Singapore is around $10,000, but the cost of living is also high, making every spending decision a conscious one.
- Discomfort with Lavishness
Feeling uncomfortable at lavish events and not wanting to waste food
Fancy events and atas restaurants can feel alienating. They might feel out of place or uncomfortable with the perceived wastefulness. It’s not about being ungrateful; it’s about having different values shaped by their upbringing. Wasting food especially, can be a big no-no.
What Can Be Done?
- Acknowledge and Accept
Recognize that these habits and feelings are valid and come from a place of experience. Don’t try to force them to change. Instead, appreciate their groundedness and fiscal responsibility. It’s a reminder to all of us to be mindful of our spending habits.
- Open Communication
Talk openly about money and values. Understand their perspective and share yours. This can help bridge the gap and build a stronger understanding. Maybe suggest activities that align with their values, like volunteering or supporting local businesses.
- Celebrate Successes
omg I feel relieved that he made it! wholesome fella!
Acknowledge their hard work and celebrate their achievements. Let them know you’re proud of how far they’ve come. Sometimes, all it takes is a little encouragement and validation to help them feel secure and confident in their success.
