Remember that one thing you always wanted as a kid, but never got? Maybe it was that super cool toy at Takashimaya, or just some peace and quiet. Turns out, many Singaporeans are finally fulfilling those childhood longings as adults. Let’s see what treasures Singaporeans are finally getting their hands on, according to Reddit.
Childhood Dreams, Adult Wallets
- Many Singaporeans are now buying the toys they were denied as children.
It’s a rainy afternoon in 2025 and I finally got him from Mandarake. Still sealed in his packaging after all this time. Feeling pretty happy and satisfied rn.
- Others are achieving a sense of independence and freedom they lacked growing up.
my parents always said lego was a waste of money, but with my ns allowance i bought myself a few sets and it felt so good
- This trend highlights the financial independence many Singaporeans gain as they enter adulthood. NS allowance and first paychecks unlock possibilities previously out of reach.
The Real Struggle Is Real
- A common frustration is the lack of trust and understanding from parents during childhood.
Growing up where my parents favour my sister much more than me… I have to often ask for permission to use the laptop for games (shared with my parents since they use it for shows) and get judge by “study already anot”, “whole day only know how to play games”, etc.
- This can lead to feelings of resentment and a desire for autonomy. Many feel the pressure of academic achievement is prioritized over personal interests.
I always just wanted to be left alone.. play my games.. read my books.. sleep.. with nobody coming in to tell me how this is unproductive and will lead to failure and shame upon the family.
- The struggle to balance parental expectations with personal desires is a relatable experience for many Singaporean youths. High academic standards and traditional values can create tension.
Reclaiming Lost Childhoods, SG Style
- One key solution is creating boundaries and prioritizing personal well-being.
And now as an adult, I have long layovers in hotels far far away from these folks.. and I can finally play my games… and sleep.. (I swapped out reading for Netflix, Apple TV and prime).
- Another is breaking negative cycles and fostering healthier relationships with their own children.
A loving mother-daughter relationship. I have the chance to create one now that I have a daughter of my own.
- Ultimately, the journey involves self-discovery and healing. It’s about acknowledging past hurts and actively creating a more fulfilling present. Finding a balance between personal desires and familial responsibilities is crucial for Singaporeans.
