Eh, Singaporeans, ever kenna that awkward moment when you realise someone’s living on a whole different level? Like, their problems are your dreams kind? Let’s talk about how to spot signs of privilege in Singapore. No judgement, just real talk.
SG’s Privilege Landscape Now
- Privilege in Singapore comes in many forms, from financial stability to supportive families.
When someone really wants to have children because they know what’s it’s like to be loved and they know what good parenting is. As a child born to a child, my parents made so many mistakes in parenting it is honestly daunting and a struggle to face as an adult.
- Some common indicators include attending elite schools like Hwa Chong, Raffles Institution, or ACS, and having the means for frequent overseas travel.
Trips to Europe every summer and winter
- Living in a condo, especially in prime districts, and having parents in high-ranking positions are also telltale signs. A non-Singaporean coming to Singapore to work/study is also often seen as privileged.
Challenges: Bridging the Gap
- A major issue is the lack of awareness some privileged individuals have about the struggles of others.
When a person thinks there are no underprivileged people in Singapore or think that if a person is poor, it is usually their fault.
- This disconnect can lead to insensitive comments or a failure to understand the financial constraints many Singaporeans face. For example, not understanding why someone is scared of losing their job, or why someone can’t pursue their dream job.
Having a very relaxed attitude to their work eg someone scolds them, they don’t care and say they can always change jobs.
- The ability to pursue passions without financial worry, like being a full-time ice skater, highlights the stark contrast in opportunities.
Actions: Building Empathy, Solutions
- The first step is to cultivate empathy and recognize that privilege exists in various forms.
Casual exchanges usually reveal a lot, especially if they pertain to a person’s childhood. Going to Hokkaido to snowboard at 30 tells you close to nothing. Having done that at 10 tells you a lot.
- Engage in open and honest conversations about financial backgrounds and challenges. Sharing personal experiences can help bridge the gap and foster understanding.
- Support initiatives that promote equal opportunities and provide resources for underprivileged communities in Singapore. Volunteer your time, donate to local charities, or advocate for policies that address inequality.
- Remember, recognizing privilege isn’t about guilt, but about using your position to create a more equitable society for all Singaporeans.
