Singaporeans kena a lot of rules, right? But sometimes, people think they can chiong through anything. Then, wah lau, they find out the hard way. Let’s talk about some local examples of ‘F*ck Around and Find Out’ (FAFO) that Singaporeans can relate to.
Current Trends, High Stakes
- Breaking the rules can lead to serious consequences, even if you think you can get away with it.
For me, it was my cousin who always acted like he could do whatever he wanted with no consequences. He’d mouth off to adults, break stuff, and never take the blame. His parents were way too lenient, so he never really got punished for anything.
- Singapore’s strict laws and regulations mean that FAFO moments can have significant repercussions.
Drive fast like a reckless idiot, crash and burn alive with eyewitnesses reporting him screaming till the end.
- Even seemingly small actions can result in unexpected and severe outcomes. NEA officers and dengue fever serve as a cautionary tale.
Challenges, Unexpected Repercussions
- A common challenge is underestimating the reach and power of Singaporean authorities.
My father kept some stagnant water at home…A few days later, NEA officers went to his home for a check. He was issued with a warning. Around one to two weeks later, he was hospitalised with dengue fever.
- Another challenge is thinking you’re above the law or that rules don’t apply to you.
Have affair with colleague. Boss found out and give you chance, tell you to stop – but you don’t listen and continue. In the end lost his job and become trainer for leadership courses.
- Hubris and overconfidence often precede a FAFO moment.
Solutions, Smart Moves Only
- Firstly, respect the rules and regulations, even if they seem minor. Don’t kayu.
Aggressive patient started cussing out the nurses. Ended up getting surrounded by hospital security. LOLLL
- Secondly, learn from the mistakes of others. Pay attention to local news and social media to see how others have FAFO and what happened to them.
- Thirdly, if you’re in a situation where you’re tempted to FAFO, take a step back and consider the potential consequences. Is it really worth it?
Many many years ago, CEO of a non-profit organization bullied with legal action some individuals who allegedly witnessed him installing gold taps in his office…and was utterly decimated by Davinder Singh in court.
- Ultimately, the best solution is to avoid FAFO situations altogether. Play smart, Singapore!
