Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and you’re probably racking your brains, right? Forget the usual flowers and chocolates. Let’s get real. What do Singaporean men *actually* want for their birthday or Valentine’s Day? We’ve scoured Reddit to find out. Here’s the lowdown, straight from the source.
Current Wants & Needs
- Shifting Priorities
“I would like someone to geniunely care about my feelings and actually listen to my thoughts.”
- Many Singaporean men express a desire for emotional connection and validation.
“men dont want anyt tbh, we just want peace.”
- Some appreciate simple gestures like quality time, food, or a peaceful environment, reflecting a shift away from materialistic desires.
“Just a quiet stroll along Sentosa and having a meal at one of the beach-side pubs while joking around with my partner is a good enough.”
Common Gift Frustrations
- Unrealistic Expectations
“Porsche 911 GT3 RS”
- Some men joke about extravagant gifts, highlighting the gap between what they might desire and what is practical.
“Superstition says cant receive shoes or you will be walked out on 🤣🤣🤣”
- Superstitions and cultural nuances, like the one about not gifting shoes, can complicate gift-giving.
“I was scrolling through the comments. And all I want is to just watch tv in peace 😂 maybe even have a shower uninterrupted. WITH ALL THESE RULES MAN. “Why’s the floor so wet?”, “DAD CAN I WATCH TEEEVEEE???? -no. BUURRRTT WHHHYYY????” -go ask your mother “URRRGFHHHH”
Actionable Gift Solutions
- Prioritize Experiences
“A hug, matcha, some cuddles on bed and some nice new balance sneakers / asics shoes”
- Focus on shared activities, quality time, or small, thoughtful gifts that show you care, such as a good meal or a quiet walk.
“< $50 : Travel Pillows w Blanket when I fly budget w her perfume"
- Consider gifts that align with their interests, whether it’s a specific item they’ve mentioned or something related to their hobbies.
“As a woman of SG, same”
- Remember: the best gifts are often the ones that come from the heart.
