Kiasu? Maybe. But Singaporeans also have a heart! Ever witnessed or experienced a small act of kindness that made your day? These little gestures often go unnoticed, but they can have a big impact. Here are some heartwarming stories shared by Singaporeans on Reddit, proving that kindness is alive and well in our little red dot.
Small Acts, Big Impact
- Kindness is often shown through simple gestures of helping others in need.
Was at a McDonald in city area, there was a foreigner couple who were confused about the shaker fry bags they were struggling with it. Sat next to them was a sg family. The dad saw it and offered to help them, he even started shaking his fries bag first so the couple didn’t feel embarrassed or awkward to do it.
- Offering help to those who are lost or struggling is another common act of kindness.
Last Nov./Dec. i was waiting for traffic light under the Sun, this kind aunty moved her umbrella over my head(i was taller than her), I’m a grown man with no sign of needing help, but she still helped me block the sun for that min, saying”still the same umbrella, covering one extra won’t cost anything”
- Even drivers show kindness by waiting patiently for pedestrians to cross the road safely.
These stories highlight the everyday kindness that exists in Singapore, often displayed without expecting anything in return. It’s a reminder that even small acts can make a big difference in someone’s day.
Challenges to Kindness
- Sometimes, people are hesitant to offer help due to fear of rejection or awkwardness.
sometime back there was this foreign worker who seemed pretty lost so we checked in on him and he told us that he need to go to police cantonment (we were at near fortune centre) so he asked us how to walk to police cantonment (he said that he tried asking many people but they either ignored or avoided him).
- The fast-paced and individualistic nature of Singaporean society can sometimes make it difficult to notice or prioritize the needs of others.
- Assumptions and stereotypes can also prevent people from offering help to certain groups.
While Singapore is known for its efficiency and order, it’s important to remember that human connection and empathy are equally important. Overcoming these challenges requires a conscious effort to be more aware of our surroundings and to extend a helping hand to those in need, regardless of their background or situation. The fear of “kaypoh-ing” shouldn’t stop us from doing the right thing.
Cultivating a Kinder SG
- Be more observant and proactive in identifying opportunities to help others.
When you’re on the mrt, and both seats to either side of you are empty, moving to allow a couple to sit together is a small act of kindness.
- Start small, even a simple smile or a kind word can go a long way.
- Share your own stories of kindness to inspire others and create a ripple effect.
Still fondly remember the lady who flagged the bus for me as I was (running) approaching after the door had closed 🥹
- Support local initiatives and organizations that promote kindness and community spirit.
By making a conscious effort to be kinder, we can create a more compassionate and supportive society for everyone. Let’s strive to be a nation known not only for its economic success but also for its warmth and generosity. A little bit of “kampung spirit” can go a long way!
